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Post by renate9 on Aug 13, 2017 1:54:44 GMT
I did get an email from DD in July. Was a weather report. On Monday morning I am going to the bank to have our safe deposit box signature thing done over. I am having her removed from being able to sign for it. I am having my step son being able to open it. I am sick of her shutting me out.
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Post by everloving11 on Aug 13, 2017 17:59:04 GMT
Yes, until and if our EC come back in reality and truth, we cannot trust them. If they respected our wishes, that would be different. But all they can think about is themselves; if they do think about us, it is through glasses of bitterness and anger. Most of the times we get hurt by others, it is born out of selfishness and carelessness. In other words, that other person didn't even mean to hurt us. Unfortunately, our EC do intend to inflict hurt on us. How well we understand, renate9.
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Post by givingupcontrol on Aug 13, 2017 18:07:04 GMT
Renate, I would agree with your decision to not allow your ED to be privvy to financial benefits of yours if she cannot treat you with respect. There are responsibilities and privileges that come with being a part of a family. If a family member chooses to disconnect and/or make consistent poor and immoral choices, I believe they should lose some of the privileges of being in that family. News flash to our EC: it's not all about you!! We were about to write our ED out of our will, but then she came back. I would have felt completely justified in removing her from the financial benefits based on several years of extreme disrespect. We don't expect our adult children to be doctors or lawyers or worldwide evangelists, but we do expect decency.
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Post by lindajoan on Aug 14, 2017 0:07:37 GMT
I agree ladies. It's a decision between each one and God. My DH prayer about it and decided early in the estrangement that out ED would not have a part in the finances and will any longer. We look for respect which is the opposite of estrangement and God's will for adult children and parents. Sad yet true.
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