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EMDR
Jun 21, 2017 17:52:23 GMT
Post by renatek8 on Jun 21, 2017 17:52:23 GMT
The question about EMDR. I am doing it and it seems to help. Want to add some things. My ED is a professional counselor. She has advanced degrees in counseling. When she was yelling at me a lot, she used the word "boundaries" a lot. She said she had to have boundaries. She took my inventory and decided I was too toxic for her to be around. She said she didn't need to forgive. That it was an old fashioned way of thinking. I hate the word toxic and boundaries. In truth I am a nice person and didn't hurt her. So I have to turn all this over to God, surrender.
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EMDR
Jun 21, 2017 18:29:08 GMT
Post by luke2231 on Jun 21, 2017 18:29:08 GMT
Renate,
Boundaries and toxic seem to be the buzzwords of psychotherapy these days. Like the academic agenda to push socialism, saying that Christians "hate" (take your pick of any racial/socioeconomic/gender/political,gender) groups, our kids are being taught by repetitive use of these words that they fall in line with the theory that man is god instead of God being God.
I think we're ALL nice people - otherwise we wouldn't care so much as to join a forum such as this to support and pray for each other's burdens. We are left wondering how all the sacrifices we made could be so easily cast aside by those we love the most, but I believe you are doing the right thing in surrendering it to Jesus. I truly believe that Satan is trying to ruin the family unit because it's the strongest thing God created. We can't do anything other than surrender. Except pray.
Praying for you and all of us.
xoxo
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EMDR
Jun 21, 2017 18:29:28 GMT
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Post by lindajoan on Jun 21, 2017 18:29:28 GMT
What is EMDR? I agree with you. I am so sorry that your ED is using these words. You do not derserve it. We must surrender this all to God. You are right. We need His help each and every day.
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EMDR
Jun 21, 2017 21:51:02 GMT
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Post by bythestreams on Jun 21, 2017 21:51:02 GMT
Ah yes the counselor who spoke with our children over empahazied the term boundaries and killed our family. Think about it ...and unsaved spouse that is gold in his hand, boundaries, the best excuse in this world to use against a christian family. To stay away.
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