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Post by everloving11 on Jan 17, 2021 1:06:18 GMT
Been listening to the song "There Was Jesus' and rejoice as I reflect back on my life with all its brokenness and hurt...and realize Jesus was and is always there. Don't give up on your estranged one --- remember that God purposefully estranged Himself from His Son on the cross for you and I. He understands and He knows and He cares so much for both you --- and the one causing so much pain.
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Post by luke2231 on Feb 4, 2021 14:35:07 GMT
Thank you everloving!
This was so timely for me, as this week is a major birthday for our ES, and marking 5 years of no contact. It has been a difficult week, to put it mildly. Adding to that, our youngest child is going through a brutal break-up with a BF of 3 years (which we're happy and relieved about, since it's a very dysfunctional and unhealthy relationship), and it's just been one big ugly cry around here as of late. I keep reminding myself of how much stronger I am now than I was 5 years ago, and for that I'm profoundly grateful. I also keep reminding myself that I can't control anything or anyone except myself, but I am a child of the one who controls it all. I doubt I could've claimed that 5 years ago; I've done a lot of work on myself to let Him begin to heal my wounds.
I believe that there are stories of triumph in this estrangement waiting to be revealed. God has used this to refine me in ways I could never have imagined, and drawn me closer to Him in such a tangible way. I may have had a difficult week, but I know that He walks with me and as you shared... "there was Jesus" with me all along and ahead of me.
Thank you and blessings... Oh, how I miss this group being active! It's such an encouragement!
xoxo
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Post by everloving11 on Feb 18, 2021 16:52:06 GMT
Amen !!!
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Post by rose on Mar 18, 2021 5:11:26 GMT
I agree that I miss being in contact with this inspiring group. I have given in to depression for some time now. Fortunately the Lord has blessed me with people who haven't given up on me. God's blessing to all the members of this group!
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Post by JeepGirl on Jul 12, 2022 3:50:17 GMT
Just saw this Luke. I feel like you,all of this has helped me grow in so many ways.
I miss my sisters on here so much. They became such an encouraging part of my life. Hard to explain, right? But we can pray for and love these new moms who are now experiencing the pain of estrangement.
Luke, the story of your son is not over. And, I know your heart is breaking for your daughter but you knew this guy was not good for her. And this story is not over either. We know how God can turn into good what the enemy means for evil. Trust HIM. Love and prayers❤🙏
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Post by luke2231 on Aug 30, 2022 13:42:57 GMT
First of all, thanks again Everlasting - this song is one in my top rotation songs when I need to draw near to Jesus.
And thank you JeepGirl, for your kind words. I agree with what you say about our stories not being done. One never knows what the future holds, and deep down underneath, even though it's been 6 years, I believe our son will reconnect at some point. From various business networking websites, it seems that he's permanently based in Europe, so only God knows at this point how that will come to fruition.
As far as our daughter, she's been on and off with this guy since I wrote the above. It's gone beyond unhealthy; I believe that he's an alcoholic, violent and abusive, and yet, brilliant, amazing woman that she is, she keeps going back. Right now, I think they're back together, but she's keeping that from us, likely because she knows we disapprove. I've had 3 passing acquaintances mention "her boyfriend" to me and I'm struggling with knowing how to handle this. As a mom, it's very scary knowing that he could hurt her, but I also want to let her come to the decision that he's not good for her. UGH. I am trusting Him, but please continue your prayers. <3
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