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Post by heavyhart on Aug 8, 2018 12:41:19 GMT
Good morning, I am new to this site. I'm reading the book, "Done with Crying", by Sheri McGregor. Joining a support group is today's exercise. I am a parent of an estranged child. It's a step of action for my own well being and stepping forward towards happiness. I am glad to find a Christian support group. Read more: lookingforgodshelp.freeforums.net/thread/237/new-site?page=1#ixzz5NadfSeS5 |
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Post by luke2231 on Aug 8, 2018 12:50:51 GMT
Hi Heavyhart,
I'm so glad you're here. Exercise or not, if I hadn't had this group of online friends that understand, support and pray for me, I would still be hiding under the covers, ignoring every good thing I still have in my life. Even though our situations and circumstances are all different, we all truly understand the pain, heartache and worry you're feeling. It's like you're in deep water and can barely keep treading with your head just above the surface; it's so hard to function sometimes. Been there, done that. Sometimes I still feel that way, but as cliche as it sounds, God will never leave nor forsake you. He will bring you through. It can be hard to recognize that at first, but keep coming back here, read previous threads, see how it's possible to step forward to happiness as you say. We will surround you with virtual hugs and prayers.
When you're ready, you can share your story, but you don't have to. If you're like most of us though, it's hard to let the "real world" know your secret thoughts and fears, but here, there's no judgment. We're walking that estrangement path right along with you. And we can pray for the specific needs you have. Sending you hugs and praying for you today. It's a big step you've taken joining this forum and it's a good one. Congratulations!
xo
Luke
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Post by everloving11 on Aug 8, 2018 13:17:55 GMT
Oh heavyhart, we do understand and are all on the same journey, but at various stops and turns. As much as we would like to see our ec change for the better, I think we are the ones who are changing the most --- for the better!!! WE count it a privilege to walk alongside one another for a part of the journey.
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Post by heavyhart on Aug 8, 2018 13:54:47 GMT
Thank you both. I appreciate the encouragement!
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Post by lindajoan on Aug 8, 2018 18:01:43 GMT
Heavyhart, I am thankful that you have joined us. Please let us know if there is anything we can do to help you. You have our support and prayers.
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Post by heavyhart on Aug 8, 2018 20:23:24 GMT
Thank you! It is so nice to know I am not alone in this. No one could understand unless they experience the same.
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Post by JeepGirl on Aug 10, 2018 5:01:16 GMT
Hi heavyhart, Like everyone else, I am glad you found us. I recall when I first came on here and how I also felt encouraged that I was not alone and even had a grain of hope for the future. It has been a very long journey for me and it is only these past few months that I felt a door may be opening just a crack.
I cannot speak for God as to why He allows estrangement in our lives but I can say, like everloving, I know He has changed me in a big way. Maybe this was the only way I would truly seek the Lord and hear his answer, which was about needed changes in me. I have been able to apply what God has been teaching me in situations with my dear daughter. I think more about what I am going to say before saying something and, more often than not, I say nothing. At least I question myself these days about what purpose would my comments serve. I have learned to be more accepting and less expectant. Still need lots of work but now I have a teachable spirit.
Early in estrangement we are so filled with emotions that I don't think it is possible to really see things clearly. We are shocked, hurt, angry and heartbroken. One minute we think we should have been different and the next, we blame everything totally on our adult children. Estrangement has often been described as a rollercoaster of emotions and I think it is a fitting description.
The best thing about our site is that we have Jesus. With Him as our common bond, I found we can share openly and know that we will receive understanding, love, compassion and lots of prayer. Prayers for God's leading, heavyhart.
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Post by everloving11 on Aug 14, 2018 13:32:18 GMT
Amen Jeepgirl!
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